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12 Dec 2005

Post Awakening
Hi all
I spend this whole weekend alone - away from my wife.
On Friday afternoon I decided to do some exploration.
I went out and lived this weekend as a woman!
I must say, I did batlle a bit with the high heels but after practicing for an hour I got it right:-)
It was SO great to be able to get up in the morning, put on some sexy clothes, make-up and all the rest. I went shopping. I went to coffee-shops, and I tried acting like a woman without acting like a feminized man (Sorry, I do not want to offend anybody)
I tried not to speak a lot asI still got a 'mans's' voice, but even when talking to shop assistants they did'nt even give me a funny look like 'You';re a man dressed as a woman'.
I went into the ladies loo, and no-one even suspected that I am a man. I even found some men giving me 'THE LOOK'. I could'nt help smiling - if only they knew!! I even felt attracted to some men - not in a Gay way-if you know what I mean.
Reason why I had to experience a weekend as a woman was to start answering some of my questions I posted here last week, myself. I had to know if I could 'Look like a woman', 'Be attractive to men' and so on.
I wanted to make sure that the journey I am about to start is the one I want to complete, and I DID found my answer this weekend. I am going to go all the way. I am a woman trapped in a man's body, and that woman HAVE TO COME OUT. I am going to undergo the transformation to woman. I can be a woman. I can live as a woman. I can look like a natural woman.
If there is anybody out ther that are considering an SRS, I would advise you to do the same. Go out there for a weekend and live the weekend as the opposite Gender. It is a mind-blowing experience.
Love to you all

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Transgender expert

01 Jan 0001

Dear Angelique,

I am so glad for you, to finally be able to feel how it is to be the real YOU! As time goes on, you will gain more and more confidence! Remember - as with every path in life, this one will also have it's low's - and in those situations, remember this "electric" feeling you currently experiencing - let it carry you through. Never look back, be proud of yourself!

Keep on posting here, communicating with others, also on other forums, if you whish to. Let's hear again from you.

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