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03 Jul 2020

My "panty" kinks are her turnoff
We have been married for 10 years, I have always wanted my wife to wear G-strings/thongs as I find them incredibly sexy, but she didn't. A few years ago I bought myself a few male g-strings which she initally was ok with but then started to immensely dislike. I thought if I wore them and didn't force her to wear them then she would be ok with that. I have recently found feminine style male g-strings that are soft, silky and frilly and bought myself some of these as they are an incredible turn on. I purged my 75+ piece collection last year but then started wearing her panties which she seemed alright with. But I can't seem to help myself and I have recently ordered some more feminine guys underwear even though I know she probably won't like it. We still have sex but she never inititates it. How can I either stop myself from doing this OR getting her to be more accepting and embrace it as part of our sex life?
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