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26 Oct 2009

Arousing her
My wife alays expect me to innitiate sex, she never does, nor take part in fore play, she experts to be arosed and only joins in later. Please ladies, tell me, is it a men' s job?
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01 Jan 0001

Sex with a partner is like a tango – not a solo dance! Women often wait for the partners to initiate – for several reasons: they either do not feel a desire for intimacy until they have been warmed up, feel shy, feel inadequate or might want intimacy but does not feel like sex. It is imp[ortamt to explore the reasons for this role distribution and find ways to address it. You could find it interesting to read up a bit on the difference in sexual responses between men and women and sexual desire disparity. You are welcome to visit the following website for any more sexual health information and assignments that could be helpful: www.sexualhealth.co.za or phone our helpline – 0860100262 where you could be assisted in finding a practitioner that you could go and see as close as possible to you.
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