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05 Feb 2004

B/f wants me to talk dirty.
What do i say????????
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01 Jan 0001

When it comes to talking "dirty," and even "nasty," many people can find themselves speechless, or clueless. The art of "pillow talk" does take creativity, practice, and time, and partners can be helpful in letting their love poets know, verbally and/or physically, which words really turn them on. First, you need to learn from your boyfriend what kinds of words he considers "nasty." What may seem "hot," "dirty," or "nasty" to you may seem "vanilla," neutral, or "cold" to him.

With that said, some suggestions for sexy role-plays, complete with verbal cues:

School Teacher and Student: "I think you need to stay after class for some private tutoring."
Flight Attendant and Passenger: "Coffee, tea,... or me?"
Homeowner and Plumber: "Hurry, I need you to unclog my pipes!"
Police Officer and Burglar: "Spread 'em!"
Firefighter and Frightened Citizen: "Let me get my hose and put your fire out."
Former Surgeon General and School Student: "Let me teach you how to masturbate."
Photographer and Subject: "Why don't we try some with your clothes off... smile."
Star "Trekee" and Star Trekee: "Beam me up Scotty, a Klingon's invading Uranus!"
Madonna and Adoring Fan: "Get into the groove, boy, you've got to prove your love to me."
You could also role-play situations from your past: the first time you met, adventures of your favorite storybook characters, or that special anniversary years ago. Reversing roles might be fun as well. If one of you is usually dominant and the other passive, switch. And don't forget about the clothes closet, kitchen, laundry room, garage, and backyard — all full of the stuff of dreams and fantasies!

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