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18 Sep 2009

cyber sex
Hi Doc
I have been in contact with a guy through emails and chats and it has reached a stage which i think is called "  cyber sex"  we will make each orgasm by means of texting. We are planning on hooking up in the next month..........and we are both excited about this but i am a bit scared, do you think it is a wise thing to do???
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01 Jan 0001

you decision will need to be made according to what you want:
- if you enjoy cyber-sex and are satisfied with the relationship as it is, then you need not to take the relationship any further
- however, if you want a proper relationship (with a physically-present boyfriend) then you may need to hook up. a word of caution though: you may be disappointed though with the real-life person - cybersex allows for you to fantasise and present an alternative persona or merely just an identity that is purely based on arousal and pleasure. real life does not allow for such a limited scope and with the complexities of life, it may just not work out. maybe if both of you clearly define what the purpose of a real-life hook-up will mean can both of you assess whether it is worth it; ie is it for sex, relationship, partnership ect and the implications thereof

good luck
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