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09 Dec 2004

Distance sex and sms's
I am 43 years old,married and have 2 lovely kids. My husband & I have been married since 1989,and generally, have a pretty good sex life-in fact,before the kids came along, my husband and I were at it virtually every moment we spent together. We were-and to some extent still are-good in bed and there was nothing we didn't do,or experiment,etc...heaven in bed.

Two years ago,I made friends wit a colleague at the compnay I worked at-he was at the Head Office and I was in a coastal branch...we became friends and one day I told him I was very attracted to him-he sent me a photo of him taken the previous year at the coast,and I was hooked...I only wanted to be in bed with him and he turned me on like nothing I've ever felt.

We broke up after a few months of sms's,heavy phone calls and e-mails,as my husband-andf this guy's wife-suspected the affair-no I am divorced and I want this guy back-I can contact him,but is it worth it,I really want him back in my lifean sugestions?
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01 Jan 0001

You start your e-mail of saying you are married and in your last sentence you say that you are divorced, so what is your actual marital status??

Dr E McIntosh
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