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04 Feb 2004

every who can help plz help!
i have this problem of mustarbating when i watch porn movies, the thing is it feels good when i do it but i then afterwards feel uncomfortable with myself as tho i have commited an unforgivable sin. i dont want to stop watching porn but i want to stop mustarbating. plz help. by the way i am a 19 years old male.
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01 Jan 0001

Biologically speaking, masturbation is as right and normal as sneezing, coughing, laughing, and yawning. The morality of masturbation, as it relates to religious beliefs, is something that you will have to determine with the help of clergy (your priest may be more used to masturbation conversations than you think), friends, family, books, and/or life experiences. The answers don't have to come today, but arriving at conclusions about sex-related stuff that you can live with may be the only way to say good-bye to guilt.

I leave you with one of my favourite, thought-provoking quotes on this subject:

"True guilt is guilt at the obligation one owes to oneself to be oneself. False guilt is guilt felt at not being what other people feel one ought to be or assume that one is."

— R.D. Laing (1961)

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