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17 Feb 2004

First timer.....Advice
I am 14 and my bf is 16. We have been together for a month now and we want to have sex for the first time. Is there anyone that gan give us tips so that it won't be sore and so that it will be a night to remember.

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01 Jan 0001

The legal age for sex for young women in South Africa is 16. In general, sexual intercourse with a minor by a non-minor , also known as statutory rape, is a crime and punishable by law. It is the age of the victim and/or the age differential between the perpet rator and the victim that determines whether or not statutory rape has been committed. The age of who is considered a minor differs from country to country and abroad, di fferent rules may apply (For instance, it is normal and not illegal for girls as young as 12 years of age to consummate a marriage in Islamic countries).

The severity of the punishment varies according to the charge.

Be very careful because yhe might end up with a criminal record if you parents press charges (even if you consented to sex with him)

So like you " a night to remember: might be a night spent in jail.

Dr Elna McIntosh

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