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22 Sep 2009

i dont cum
how badly does it bother my boyfriend that i dont come? I orgasim on toys but have never come and hes starting to feel it and thinks its him, I have never cum with anypartner so I know its not him. How can i put his mind at ease?
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01 Jan 0001

Orgasm experiences differ widely in women. Many will climax only with direct clitoral stimulation, like you probably have with a sex toy. 70% of women reach orgasm on only every 2nd or 3rd sexual encounter with a partner. Some women struggle to reach orgasm at all. Reassure your partner with these facts. Sometimes women may climax with oral stimulation of the clitoral area. Sex is about the whole interaction and not just ‘the climax’. Visit the SA Sexual Health Association website for more information
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