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07 Dec 2012

lack of interest in sex
i get bored when i have to sleep with my fiance and we are fighting a lot
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01 Jan 0001

Hi Ayanda
Your relationship lies at the heart of your problem. Unresolved issues like anger, resentment and lack of trust will all have a negative impact on your sex life. In a committed relationship such as yours you need to talk to each other and understand each other before the kind of intimacy required for a satisfying sexual connection can exist. Honesty and clear communication will help both of you open up sexually and reintroduce excitement and desire back into your relationship. Your boredom is unlikely to be a result of what the two of you are sexually capable of, more likely a symptom of problems in your relationship.

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