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06 Jan 2005

men & masturbation
Regarding the posting earlier about masturbation, I thought I'd give you my 2 cents worth, just for interests sake...

Fact of life #1: All men enjoy masturbating at some stage. For many men it's a lifelong relationship.

Fact of life #2: Just like women may look at an ad for choclate and crave one, men see a picture of a naked women and lust after her. This has nothing to do with reality.

Fact of life #3: If the wife makes an issue of this, the husband is going to do it behind her back.

Fact of life #4: When they look at porn, men masturbate. When they look at their wives, they want to have sex. There is a huge emotional difference between the two actions, even for men.

Fact of life #5: Many women enjoy masturbation as well. Those who do usually have a very fulfilling sexual relationship with their partners. Those who don't usually feel degraded and abandoned by their husbands.

(These "facts of life" was given to me, typed and framed, by my husband when we were still dating and I walked in on him wanking one day. It has made a tremendous difference in my attitude towards the problem and towards sex in general! We have a wonderful satisfying sex life.)
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