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03 Apr 2006

My Affair
I am having a torrid affair with my Boss. He is 46, sexy, married. I am 22 young woman who cannot get enough of him. It is purely sexual and we have sex all over the office. (Its just the 2 of us in the office) I have tried to stop him, but I just go weak at the knees when he is near me or touches me .Please help

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01 Jan 0001

Not to be judgmental, but the way that you are portraying this does not sound good. In general, affairs vary in every conceivable way, and no one theory or conclusion fits them all. But in your case, the idea that he might have to fire you if this doesn't work, or his wife finds out is what's disturbing, and also how this whole thing is affecting you and your life.

Many married men start affairs by telling their new partner that they are unhappy or unfulfilled in their marriage. This is a way of gaining the trust of their new partner, as well as rationalizing their affair, whether it's true or not. All marriages have their problems, so at least part of this will be truthful. My advice, off the cuff, is to leave this relationship as soon as possible. If you need some support, go for counseling to a private psychotherapist. As my father once said to me as a teenager, " there are other fish in the sea". I know it's not what you want to hear right now, however, I hope at some point it offers you some solace.

E Mc

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