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25 Jul 2010

No sex yet
Hi  Im 48 + my bf is 52. Been going out 7 mths now + can both see our relationship being long term, possibly even marriage. We r well suited + compatible + I''m crazy about him. We cuddle, kiss, hold hands + have a lot of physical contact but he has never attempted to have sex with me. It''s not that he doesn''t get aroused, I can feel his erection through his clothes.He even sleeps with me sometimes + I crave 4 him 2 make long passionate love 2 me but he never crosses that line. I sometimes feel like asking him for it or just simply seducing him. I dont know why he is like this + also don''t want to be too pushy but I would soooo much like to make love with him. Just not quite sure how I should approach the whole thing. I get very turned on when we " vry"  like that .
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01 Jan 0001

maybe suggest mutual masturbation: this will be a simple gesture to suggest that you are ready to be intimate but that he still has the freedom to negotiate his needs, wants, and timeline
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