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23 Jul 2010

porn is the only thing that turns me on
I have quite a low libido and i find that i often don''t feel like sex at all but when there is a soft porn movie on tv or something i find i get really turned on. my husband doesn''t turn me on as much as this does, is this wrong? I have tried other afrodesiacs and nothing really works....however my husband does have a sex problem and weakness for woman and has cheated on me before we were married and i''m afraid that if we watch it together before we have sex that it may destroy our marriage or make him look for it more and more with other woman? what should i do?
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sexologist

01 Jan 0001

The problem is not libido but may be what you find sexually arousing and stimulating. that the porn stimulates you means that you still have sexual desire and arousal. thus it may not be a physiological problem that you have but maybe relationship issues. that your husband cheated / weakness for women may be off-putting. rather than introducing porn to the relationship, rather consult a therapist to counsel both of you in relationship / trust / intimacy issues
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