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24 Jun 2010

sex in my marraige
Hi im having a serious problem regarding my sexual life, im married with a husband who dont want to make love to me, what should i do, he only wants to make love in the darkness and you know what, he even always struggle to get the hole of my vigina when i try to talk about our sex life ge gives in and stop making love to me. we only make love once in two or three months time, i tried to talk about this and he always get off me and show me his back and sleep the whole night thru. please i need your advise on this, if i say we should go and seek help he alwys brushes it off and start another conversation He privately watch blue movies(dvd) behind my back which i find it very wierd, if he cant make love to me, why is he watching those dvd''s and cant learn from what he is seeing. help me what can i do?
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sexologist

01 Jan 0001

the best advice is to seek the help of a professional. your husband presents serious issues and problems regarding sexuality that can only be properly dealt with by a therapist. the therapist will create a space of freedom, respect and mutuality that are the cornerstones of a good sex life.
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