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23 Jul 2010

Sex @ work
I had sex with the boss. After the WC final me and my boss drove off as he was going to take me home, but we had too much to drink and I ended up in his place.

We had sex, I wouldn't call it love making as I never felt any love for him before.

This week we did it again at the office. His PA is suspicious about the whole thing. I feel used, but at the same time I enjoy.

My boyfriend has no clue - now I wish he calls me to his office all the time, but I feel guilty for feeling this way. is it necessary. I know I am cheating and its not right, but it feels good - I need advice.
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01 Jan 0001

in a relationship you have a responsibility to your boyfriend. its unfair to expect love from your bf but sex from your boss. identify why you want sex with your boss (is it lust, excitement, cravings for approval, seduction by power), once identified you can determine which relationship is healthy / better: with bf or boss. a therapist can also assist you in identifying such issues.
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