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16 Aug 2011

strange but true
the other night my husband came to bed in my panties, we started forplay, I tried not to re act to him in my panties,as I thought I would play along, but when I removed them to give him oral, he was also shaved bald, now I am totally concerned with this new fetish, after so many years of marriage. He tells me it turns him on to be shaved, and in my little thongs. He is a mans man through and through, and has never done anything like this before. Should I let him mplay his game, or stop this perversion in its tracks. It doesnt bother me, if thats what turns him on, but what if gay tendencies are developing, that will bother me
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01 Jan 0001

Dear Freekish,

We all have our various range of turn ons. Some we reveal in our relationships, some we may keep hidden only to our private selfs and others we may feel safe to reveal in a relationship as we grow more amd more trusting and safe in the relationship and we feel the need to be even more authentic and open in our relationships.

If these developments in your and your husband's sexual relationship increases your level of intimacy, expands your sexual repertoire, adding new an fun energy to the relationship and you are comfortable with it, then why not?

Being aroused by some cross dress play is not an indicator of sexual orientation.
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