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19 Apr 2006

To all the men out there...
Ok guys i need you to be really honest here. Would you marry a woman who has never had vaginal sex but has had anal on numerous occassions with her ex boyfriend?I am asking this because i am in this situation and i don't know how my guy will react when he finds out i am not a virgin in the rear.I really love him and i am scared of losing him we are getting married next month and we havent had sex yet.
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01 Jan 0001

Why is it imporatnt that he knows about your anal history? Not all men like anal sex, amd possibly he is one of them.

I find it interesting that you "saving" yourself for marriage but that you have anal sex. Virginity really means untouched - whether it's front or back. You need to decide whether it is worth telling him or not, and then you have to live with the consequences of your decision.

E Mc
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