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15 Dec 2004

To: SR
Hi there SR,
I have read your most recent postings and find your thoughts very interesting. There aren't many men out there nowadays who are interested in finding out a woman's thoughts or intimate secrets.
As a woman, I think most women out there really want to share all their secrets with someone special, but we all know that mystery is what seems to attract a man. Myself, I was lucky enough to find a man a few months ago whom I felt I connected with on every single level. Therefore, I found myself opening up to him like I have never before. He asked the most amazing questions, and naturally I answered him in extreme detail because he was interested in ME. Unfortunately this guy turned out to be a jerk....and once again, I find myself now putting up a wall when I meet men. I know that in future I won't as easily give of myself or my mind so openly.

Personally, in the situations I have been in relationship wise, I have learnt that men never turn out to be the person that you find attractive in the early stages. Whether they feel the need to put on aires, I don't know. Whether I see things in them that aren't there, I don't know.

But I do think that this topic of discussion is an extremely interesting one. And I think opposite sexes need to converse more and learn from each other exactly what the opposite sex wants....in the end it would save us all a lot of heartache.
So, go right ahead, and ask all the questions your heart desires...
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