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18 Sep 2009

unsure, please help
I have this new gf and we tried to have sex for the first time last night but her vagina is very tight and therefore it did not work. The problem is that we then tried anal sex and my penis slipped right in with some assistance from lube. I am worried that she has done this before as it was not a problem to penetrate?

Am I being silly or has she been taking up the backside before?
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01 Jan 0001

i do not know what the problem is? are you concerned that your partner has had sex before? if so, why is this a problem - are you concerned about HIV or that she is not a virgin? or that you cannot penetrate the vagina?

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