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29 Jun 2005

Will he wait 4 me?
I have this great opportunity of going to work in the UK for six months and if not, longer than that. My problem is that i have this boyfriend that i love more than i have ever loved before and feels like he loves me the same, which makes me fell that i dont wanna leave behind i have this fear that the minute i leave for UK it will over for us because i know what happened to most of distance relationships.

I know i would'nt do anythng as in like cheating on him but the thing is i am not too sure about him. At the age of 22 he was the first guy i ever slept with and now we've been 2gether 4 more than 2 years now, and the idea of him sleeping with someone else when i'm still on the picture scares the hell out of me cos i know that i wont be able forgive him.

What do you guys think should i juz get over it and go or what exactly.
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01 Jan 0001

Would he put his life on hold for you? Why can't you follow your dream? My father always use to say "there's plenty on fish in the sea". Maybe not exactly what you want to hear right now, but life is all about choices, and opportunities don't always come knocking twice at your door.

Good Luck
Prof Elna McIntosh
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