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03 Apr 2006

answer gals please
telme wat it would mean to you gals o loose your virginity to your boyfriend do yourl think itsa big deal or wat please telme coz my gfren and i lost our virginity together just want to know how shud i act im getn ova protective and dont want her to chat with other guys especially since some of the guys she chats wit were her x and 1 of them touched her breast she somtyns listns and other tyms doznt listn she used to listn all the tym before she says im getting to controlling is this ok is it my fault wat should i do do yourls bofriends tel yourl not to chat with your x or guys he thinks is hitting on you and if he does do your listen please help
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01 Jan 0001

Whilst people deciding to have sex together for the first time is a very important decision, it does need to be looked at in relation to the whole relationship. If you get overprotective you may kill the relationship because your girlfriend cannot deal with your behaviour.

Whilst being sexually active adds a level of seriousness to your relationship you cannot think that you can now control your girlfriend and who she talks to and when.

Trust your girlfriend in the way you have been doing up until now, but also let her know if something she does is hurtful to you. Communicate with each other about your needs rather than trying to control the other person.

The legal age for sexual intercourse in SA is 16 years old.
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