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08 Jul 2005

Boy Issues
My boyfriend moved to Switzerland recently to study. We hardly talk and when we do, we dance around the subject of whether we are still together or not. I really care about him. But I need to know if I should move on. Besides I am always the one calling him or e-mailing. Am I ignoring the obvious. HAs HE already moved on?
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01 Jan 0001

Hi

long distance relationships are not impossible but they are difficult to maintain, especially if someone is overseas indefinitely or for long periods of time.

It sounds like the time for skirting around the issue must end, and that you need to ask him outright what he thinks about where the two of you are at, and for you to be honest about that as well. Sometimes people agree to end a relationship while apart and then if/when the two of you are in the same place again to re-look at things.

The only way to find out if he has moved on is to ask him. In turn ou will then know where you stand and it will enable you to move on if that is what you need to do.

Best wishes
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