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09 Mar 2004

"Came" but did't want to
Pleez help explain this; in Dec. we went camping. We were a lot of teens, all between 14 and 16 with adult supervision. Anyway, one night, we sneeked drinks and then went to bed. Before I fell asleep this boy creeped into our tent while the other two girls were sleeping. I was scared so I lay still and he put his hand into my sleeping bag and he fingered me. I was terrified and so scared but I could see that while he was rubbing me he was wanking himself. Even though I was scared I got wet and I "came". I am so confused 'cos I did'nt want him to and yet i "came" and enjoyed it. I am sure he could feel me coming becasue it was strong. I masterbated before that but since then when I fantasize and masterbate about that night I have very big orgasms. Why? I am still a virgin but I like masterbating at least 3 times a week. Is this a lot? Am I normal?
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Teen health expert

01 Jan 0001

Hi Reluctant

Hi Writers, sorry that I am replying now but I have been away for a while but now I am up and going again and ready to give you good advice!

Hope everyone is doing well

You are normal. Statistics shows us that a lot of women fantasize about a rape scene when masturbating. And no they don't want to be raped it is just a distortion of reality.

With molestation/rape the child/women gets turned on because of the sexual stimulation and because the high adrenalin situation. So, don't worry it is definitely not your fault.

However this is a form of sexual violation and in future you need to give yourself voice and say no! You have the right to say no and act out!

Please learn how to say no.

Good luck
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