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30 Jul 2010

Caught my 13 year old daughter masterbating - please help me
I feel a bit embarrest but I found my teenage daughter masterbating while watching porn. As a father I feel I need to punish her for watching porn but if i do that she will know i saw her masterbating. I have taught her about the birds and the beas. Is this normal for girls to do this so often or has our society got worse. Am I such a bad father?
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Teen expert
Teen expert

01 Jan 0001

Hi John

No this does not make you a bad father. Parenting is a very imperfect, imprecise science!

What is happening here is not at all unusual, but access to pornography needs attending to. If it is internet based there are a number of free programmes you can download so that any computers at home block sites not suitable for children and young people under the age of 18.

I would not necessarily confront her about it, but rather put the blocks on your computer.
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