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28 Jul 2006

Guys confuse me so much!!
Hey there,
if there are any guys out there who can tell me why guys have to be so confusing, i would really appreciate it.
i met a guy and he was flirting with me and everything and then he suddenly disappeared and i havent seen him since.
He says he was busy with stuff but i really dont get why guys have to make you think they like you and then just drop you??
Are they all so shallow that they would rather go after the barbie lookalikes? I dont look bad but for some reason, they just wanna be friends??
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Teen expert
teen expert

01 Jan 0001

Unfortunately some people can be shallow at times (girls and guys), and rather than it being a reflection on you it says more about them.

You can enjoy harmless flirting for what it is - a bit of fun but you can also become more discerning about who you spend time with as time goes on. In this regard trust your own feelings - even if you are really into the person, if you have unsure feelings or even feel you cant trust them, then listen to your own valuable opinion.

The right people who will treat you with respect will come along.

Best wishes
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