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09 Jul 2005

i really dont know what to do and its making me hate myself
i dont know what to do. I wrote on here last time and 2 ppl answered which helped. The teen expert said it sounds like i could have ADD. For a long time i have felt that i might have ADD. Noone listens to me though. I dont really talk to my mum because she isnt around a lot and well we just dont talk. My dad is schizoprhenic. I tried to tell him i thought i had ADD but well you can probably guess he just talked a load of rubish back. I am quite close with my teachers seeing as i'm head boy. the biggest reason i am head boy is because i was really naughty andnearly got chucked out of school but turned it around. All my targets are high but i still seem to underachieve even though its a year into my gcse. I 've tried top hint that i think theres something wrong with me and how hard it is for me to concentrate but they just dont listen. They always say everyone finds it hard to concentrate or all teenagers are like that. BUT whati dont understand is how come i feel so frustrated and none else does. None realises how hard i find it, how often and how much i cant concentrate. Even in exams once i loose the attention i cant get back inot. the other day i nearly got sent out the test cos i kept fidgeting but i was really borde. HOW comes everytime someone talks to me i just dont listen. everytime i strat thinking of other stuff and i drift of. Honestly, do all other teenagers go through what i am. I cant take it anymore. What shall i do if i dont feel comfortable talking to my GP or parents at all and none seems to understand or listen to me when i say i REALLY cant concentrate. I dont want them to think that i'm weird because i think theres something wrong wth me. PLEASE PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!
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Teen expert
teen expert

01 Jan 0001

Hi Sam,

if you cannot speak to yur parents or doctor about this I strongy suggest you do more than just hint at the problem with your teachers. Tell them how much of a problem this is for you and how much it is worrying you, and that it is affecting your performance. Whilst you may not feel comfortable talking to your mum or GP you have to ask yourself is this problem important enough to do something about? If so, then you need to think about ways of mentioning this to your mum. It must also be very difficult for you dealing with your father having a serious mental illness, and I hope you are getting some form of support about this.

If speaking to your mum at first is too difficult please find time to sit down and speak to one of the teachers you are close to and tell them exactly what the problems are. Writing down a problem list beforehand will also help you get your point across and it can also be something they can read and respond to.

Don't give up on yourself Sam, you are important enough to invest time in yourself in this way.

Best wishes
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