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14 Dec 2005

Mother as a problem
I am 19 years old and i am starting to hate my mother because she doesn't understand. We leave a her man that wanted sex from me and she knows about it. Everytime when she she cross she says i must get out of her house. Everytime when she sees me guys she thinks i am sleeping with them. She tells people that i am a alcoholic and a bitch and that i wanted to sleep with her man. She likes to show off in front of her friends as soon as i come in the house. I have spoken to her and she she understands for now and when she cross she does the whole drama thing again. What must i do? If no one is going to talk to her then i am going to kill myself or go to a place that she will never know. PLEASE HELP ME I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!
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01 Jan 0001

Hi Jane,

it sounds more like your mother is behaving like a teenager than you are! Are there other adults you can speak to in your life - relatives or family friends that you trust? It sounds as if your mom is angry with you for something her exboyfriend did.

It sounds like you have tried to communicate with your mom about how you feel but she is not really hearing you, which is why i am suggesting involving other adults in your life. If living with your mom is becoming too difficult then you may want to consider living somewhere else given your age.

In the mean time remember that your moms mistakes are not worth you taking your life for. If you need to speak to someone in an emergency please call childline on their tollfree number 08000 55 555
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