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02 Jul 2005

should I
17 and in love , my b/f and I are virgins we do not even touch each others private parts . He has asked me for a pair of my panties that I have had on all day , should I give him a pair , it is better than sex I think ,
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teen expert

01 Jan 0001

Hi there,

this is ultimately for you to decide. If you feel comfortable about it, then this is something between the two of you. What you need to also consider though is whether your boyfriend is hoping that this is a lead-in to having sex with one another. If you are not ready for sex and you want to wait then this remains the most important consideration. Many people engage in things that can be seen as sexual without engaging in sexual intercourse. If this is what you want and don't want to go any further just yet then this is how you feel and what is right for you.

Listen to yourself and what you feel you need. If someone loves you they will NEVER pressure you into doing something you don't want to.

Good luck and best wishes
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