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29 May

Urinary incontinence
I am 35. I have been urinating on myself for the last 2 to 3 years. I have seen multiple urologist. They prescribed me multiple medications. Then they sent me to get a treatment involving a electric stimulation to a muscle in my ankle that runs up to my bladder. I have tried doing kegal exercises. Nothing has worked. The next step they want me to do is invasive surgery. Which at my age, I am not comfortable with. I want to know what caused this, and I can’t seem to get any answers. I have mild sleep apnea which I have a clap. I won’t lie I don’t use it every night and most nights when I do I wake up with the mask off. I don’t consciously take it off. I had a gastric bypass at 18. I weighed 365 lbs then. I weigh 220lbs right now. I am usually around 210 to 215 though. I take vitamins daily. I try to eat well, but I don’t always. I have tingling feeling in my feet, legs, arms, and hands most noticeable at night. I have shortness of breath and it has gotten worse, sex drive is lowered. I have mental health disorders including ptsd, anxiety, ADD and depression. But I stopped taking medication months ago as I noticed little difference except negative side effects. I am tired everyday no matter how much I sleep unless I take ADD medication or drink large amounts of caffeine which doesn’t last long and has negative side effects. I have swelling in my ankles daily. I routinely have stomach issues such as abdominal pain, gas, and diarrhea or constipation. My last 2 lab results on vitamins had me low on iron reserves and vitamin D. Which I started taking supplements just for them. I don’t know what to do.. I urinate on myself all the time. I am tired all the time. And I have a daughter and a family. This is effecting there life negatively as well. I’ve looked at crohns disease, cileac disease, kidney disease, heart disease. However I don’t have issues with weight loss, or decreased appetite usually. But many symptoms of each otherwise. (Nerve damage, fatigue, stomach issues when eating a lot of gluten, and certain foods, shortness of breath, swollen ankles, etc) Please help. Thank you,
Incontinence Expert

04 Jun

Dear Anon
It seems like you have had a very tough time of it.
I would suggest a urodynamic study, which your Urologist could arrange.
Based on the results, advice can be given regarding appropriate treatment.
Sacral nerve stimulation (Interstim) may well be a good option in your case.
Kind regards
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