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21 Apr

Orgasm and Ejaculation as a female
Hi. I’m a 21-year-old female and I don’t think I’ve ever ejaculated before and I’ve never gotten “wet” no matter how horny I am. I only seem to be able to orgasm when I stimulate my clit, but never with vaginal penetration, and even then I can never ejaculate (as in actual fluid coming out of my vagina). I’m worried as I feel this has affected my sex life with my partner who thinks because I haven’t “squirted” or ejaculated, that he isn’t satisfying me. Which is false. I just can’t seem to orgasm when he penetrates me as good as the sex is and I can’t seem to ejaculate when I do orgasm with clitoral stimulation. How can I learn to ejaculate or is something wrong with me?
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