He is avoiding me after we had sex

Q: I have been in a relationship for less than two months and we had sex three times. The last time we had sex I told him that I don’t like how fast we are moving. He said I complain too much, and is now avoiding my calls. He claims there is no network where he stays. But what is strange is that before we made love, he was available. ANONYMOUS, BRITS

A: When you start a new relationship, you need to define it clearly as to what you want and expect from it. Some people want to play around and have no intentions of having a serious relationship. Define your terms of relating with him and then you will know whether you have the same idea of a relationship or not