HELP: "I want to have a baby with my HIV-positive lover"

Anonymous from Emalahleni writes: 

I have been with my boyfriend

for 10 years. We broke up

twice and he begged me to stay

with him. He has two children with

different women. We love each

other, but I’ve just found out that

he is HIV positive. I want to have

children with him. What must I do?

Sis Naledi answers: 

Your boyfriend’s behaviour

is not going to help him live

for long as he is subjecting

himself to more diseases by

sleeping with other women.

If you want to have children with

this man, you will be exposing

yourself to HIV if you are not

already positive.

Visit your nearest clinic to get

advice on having children with an