HELP: " My girlfriend says she is losing interest in us"

Anonymous from Boksburg: 

My partner and I have been

together for almost 11 years and

we have a beautiful six-year-old

child. My girlfriend says although

she loves me, she is slowly losing

interest in our relationship. Am I

going to lose her?

Sis Naledi answers:

Talk openly about both your

goals and expectations

about the relationship.

Eleven years is a very long time

and one may expect that you

should have married her by now.

If you are not doing what she

expects from the relationship,

she may lose interest in you.