HELP: "My lover is not good in bed so I slept with another man"

Anonymous from Bethal writes:

I’m 30 and my boyfriend is

34. I really love him a lot but

he’s not that good in bed. He recently

asked me to marry him and I said yes

but now I’m having second thoughts.

I slept with another friend of mine

and it was good but I don’t love him.

Should I leave my boyfriend for the

guy who’s really good in bed or

should I stay with my boyfriend?

Dr Eve answers:

If you really love your

boyfriend how can you sleep

with another man? Being ‘bad’

in bed definitely could be a reason

not to marry someone.

But if you love the person, you will

love spending time teaching him how

to be ‘good’ enough for you in be