Anonymous from Bethal writes:
I’m 30 and my boyfriend is
34. I really love him a lot but
he’s not that good in bed. He recently
asked me to marry him and I said yes
but now I’m having second thoughts.
I slept with another friend of mine
and it was good but I don’t love him.
Should I leave my boyfriend for the
guy who’s really good in bed or
should I stay with my boyfriend?
Dr Eve answers:
If you really love your
boyfriend how can you sleep
with another man? Being ‘bad’
in bed definitely could be a reason
not to marry someone.
But if you love the person, you will
love spending time teaching him how
to be ‘good’ enough for you in be