HELP: "My toyboy satisfies more than my husband"

Anonymous from Ga-Rankuwa writes:

I’m 35 years old and have

been married for ?ve years. My

husband loves me and I love him

too. We have a lovely daughter.

The problem is that I don’t reach

orgasm when I make love to my

husband. I also have a toyboy

who always satis?es me. Why is

it that my husband cannot give

me the same satisfaction?

Dr Eve answers: 

Your story is a good

example of how sexual

satisfaction is not just

about technique. Your heart is

involved. Maybe you should talk

to your husband about what

you like in bed and what you

don’t. Find a way to gently show

him how you like to be pleased

during love-making. Be careful

not to make him feel like he

might be the problem as this

might affect your marriage.