- The controversial rap-rave group Die Antwoord is facing serious allegations of child abuse and exploitation by their adopted son.
- Gabriel "Tokkie" du Preez, now 20, has spoken out about what he and his minor sister allegedly saw and experienced as the foster children of Ninja and Yolandi Visser.
- Du Preez is back at his family home in Vrededorp, Johannesburg where he met Die Antwoord 12 years ago.
The adopted son of the controversial rap-rave group Die Antwoord has made sensational claims of child abuse against his foster parents, including the exposure to pornography, violence and rituals.
Now 20-years old, destitute and back in the poor Vrededorp neighbourhood in Johannesburg, where Waddy Jones (Ninja) and Anri du Toit (Yolandi Visser) "picked me up from school" in 2010 at the age of nine, Gabriel "Tokkie" du Preez has spilled the beans about his sordid childhood with the international music stars.
"They made me feel like I was actually a slave. They adopted me to be a slave. They made me feel like I wasn't really being loved," Du Preez told News24 this week after an explosive 44-minute interview with Die Antwoord's former filmmaker and secret artist, Ben Jay Crossman, was released on YouTube.
Some of the more shocking, potentially illegal allegations made against the artists, include:
- Jones and Du Toit took Du Preez and his minor sister to a private clinic to have their blood drawn, supposedly to be used in rituals. Du Preez saw Jones carrying small bottles of blood.
- Jones showed Du Preez a pornographic video clip sent to him by a former girlfriend on his cellphone when Du Preez was 11-years old and in his custody.
- Du Preez stabbed his older brother with a knife in Die Antwoord's Parkhurst, Johannesburg home. Jones and Du Toit congratulated him and emulated the scene, using children, in a 2019 music video.
- Jones encouraged Du Preez's minor sister, who, until recently, still visited them at their Cape Town mansion, to undress before them and join them naked in the sauna, with other naked adults. The girl now refuses to see her foster parents.
In response to a detailed list of accusations against them, Die Antwoord's only response through their agent Scumeck Sabottka from MCT-Agentur in Berlin, was: "Die Antwoord don't agree with Tokkie's statements."
Die Antwoord, who had signed multimillion-rand record deals since their breakthrough onto the global music scene in 2010, based their brand on imitating the so-called Zef lifestyle and culture of poor white suburbs like Vrededorp, and the numbers gangs of the Cape Flats.
They adopted Du Preez and his minor sister, now 14, under foster parenting agreements and had used them as actors and props in a number of their very successful shows, albums and videos like "I Fink U Freeky" and "Ugly Boy". They also paid another poor family in Johannesburg to use their 12-year-old son in their projects and had one biological daughter of their own.
At various times over the past decade, all four children had shared homes with Jones and Du Toit in Cape Town and Johannesburg. Du Preez also lived with them in Los Angeles for a few months, but returned to South Africa as he was missing his biological family.
Jones and Du Toit had previously been accused of appropriating different South African cultures for their success, but this was the first time a foster child had spoken out about their alleged exploitative and abusive behaviour towards their adopted kids.
"They made me believe I was the devil,” Du Preez, who suffered from a rare skin disease called hypohidrotic ectodermal dysplasia, told Crossman in the video interview. Included in the video is a clip of Du Preez, then nine or 10-years old, floating on a pool lilo, telling the camera, "come to Yolandi's house, I will f*****g burn you in hell, I will burn your face on the stove".
During an interview with News24 on Friday, Du Preez sat on a black and white five litre paint tin in the backyard of the house in Vrededorp - also referred to as Fietas - his late mother left behind for his 14-year-old sister - a far cry from the glitzy life of Die Antwoord, who lived in a R26 million mansion in Cape Town.
Du Preez and his brother shared a bedroom in the home while they rented out the rest of the rooms. In the backyard, there are several tiny, corrugated iron and wooden shacks where about eight families lived.
"We rent out the rooms to make a living. We asked them [families] to pay us R400 a month so that we can all survive and fix up the house. The living situation here is quite bad, because we had to remove the bathroom to put another family in.
"There is one toilet that everyone uses outside on the stoep."
Du Preez recalled the first few weeks he lived with Jones and Du Toit at their house in Parkhurst, Johannesburg after they saw him walking from school and agreed to a foster care agreement with his mother.
"It was nice there because they had a pool and with my skin condition I can't sweat and needed to keep myself hydrated all the time with water. It was better for me because they had a pool in the yard."
But things changed shortly after the couple allegedly forced Du Preez to record videos of him degrading and swearing at his biological family for being poor.
"They made me swear more and made me believe that I could burn people in hell and that I am the king of hell. They told me that I could bring darkness upon the world," he said.
Du Preez claimed that Jones and Du Toit promised to take good care of him, but they were never around and were always busy and on tours. Most of the time, he was alone at home with an au pair.
"It felt like my life was messed up, especially when it came to my family," he said.
News24 obtained a copy of the foster care agreement signed in 2013 between Du Preez's now deceased mother, Josephine, and the Die Antwoord duo of Jones and Du Toit. In the agreement, they agreed to:
- "Protect and nurture" Du Preez by providing a "safe, healthy environment with positive support";
- Promote Du Preez's "educational improvement" by placing him in a school;
- "Protect and promote" Du Preez's right and best interest by providing him with clothing, food and "all other essentials required for his well-being", and
- Place Du Preez in a "safe and secure home" during weekdays. He was supposed to visit his biological mother over weekends.
Du Preez's version of events, corroborated by other witnesses and evidence, called into question whether the duo complied with any of the legally required terms.
Jones and Du Toit had a similar foster adoption arrangement with Du Preez's younger, minor sister. He said Die Antwoord forced them to undress in front of them when they bought them new clothes. They were punished if they refused.
Du Preez claimed he was very disturbed when a naked Du Toit once asked him to spend time with her in a room at a party at a house in Vrededorp owned by Die Antwoord. He was 13 at the time.
"Yolandi (Du Toit) called me into the room, she was naked and vomiting all over. She was laying with her legs open like the (sex) doll I had in my room. She called me into the room to call Ninja (Jones) in the lounge," Du Preez said, adding:
Incest is a common theme in Die Antwoord's music videos.
He said he also feared for his minor sister's safety and wanted to protect her from Jones and Du Toit.
Du Preez said his sister told him when he saw her last week that she no longer wanted to visit the couple in Cape Town.
"She is doing well, but she doesn't want to go down to Cape Town because Ninja and Yolandi always ask her to get naked in front of them. Last December, Ninja and them apparently took my sister into a sauna and everyone was naked in the sauna and wanted my sister to get naked too.
"Why does Ninja want to see my sister naked? She is so small. It is pretty weird, it feels like a pervy vibe to me that Ninja wants to have with my sister. Every time when he phones the family, they ask if my sister is pregnant yet and that is not going to happen, not on my watch."
Du Preez received home-schooling up to Grade 9, but thereafter dropped out and essentially became a labourer for Jones and Du Toit.
Filmmaker, artist and photographer Ben Jay Crossman admitted to introducing Die Antwoord to Tokkie du Preez in 2010 after documenting Vrededorp.
"Tokkie was playing in the street with his brother and a few kids. I said 'hi' to them, met Tokkie's mom Josi and took some photos of everyone. Later, I returned and took more pictures of the family and also made some videos.
"During this time I was working with Die Antwoord and showed them the pictures. Later I heard Ninja and Yolandi went to look for Tokkie and were going to use him in the 'I Fink U Freeky' video with (artist) Roger Ballen."
Crossman organised last week's interview after Du Preez reached out to him in a bid to restart his career. In the video, Du Preez tells Crossman his dream was to become an actor or a model.
"Tokkie's bravery is contagious... When Tokkie reached out to me and told me his story I believed him 100% based on what I had personally witnessed," Crossman said.
Du Preez said he wasn't allowed to stay with the other children at their Higgovale, Cape Town mansion and they rented a room for him in Hout Bay.
"I had to wake up at 05:00 to make sure that I am at their house by 06:00 to take the children to school. They had other drivers as well, but I did most of the driving and things for them."
At the time, he was underaged and did not have a driver's license.
Du Preez said he regretted meeting Jones and Du Toit and wondered what his life would have been without them.
"I could have spent so much time with my biological mother and not missing out on all of those years because now the only memories I have of my mom are the happier years from the age of seven and until she got sick of cancer."
She died in 2015.
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