We just entered one of the most uncertain financial situations of our time but South Africans are no strangers to tightening the belt.
Now, imagine having to budget for a baby in the midst of this, and it's not surprising the impending birth of your child may be making you panic slightly.
Here are a few tips for making ends meet:
1. Take stock: draw up a budget and start saving up
Pregnancy is a good time to take stock in general so why not do this on a financial level too? You may be drowning in it, but starting to get your head around the costs will help you to prepare.
Try to remain calm and focused on the little miracle growing inside you or your wife – your baby’s health and the mom's well-being are even more important during these stressful times.
2. Cope with the stress
Look for ways to escape your day-to-day financial worries by finding distraction – take your phone and get lost in your favourite music, find a quiet place in your home and take an hour off to read a good book, or tap into your creative side and take up a hobby like pottery or painting.
Don’t obsess over the negative – “I can’t afford to deck out my baby’s nursery” or “My baby won’t be getting everything it needs”.
Instead, think of the positive: your baby will be loved and will love you back unconditionally.
Surviving the lockdown while pregnant need not be such an awful experience: prepare yourself, take stock, cut back and hang in there. Most importantly though is to enjoy your pregnancy and look forward to the birth of your little one.
It all goes by so fast and you don’t want to look back at what should've been a magical time of your life and realise all you can remember are bad financial times.
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3. Where to find cash quickly:
Claim from UIF
Whether you're claiming for maternity benefits or unemployment benefits, make it the first thing you do when you leave your job.
If you take maternity leave, you can claim up to 4 months and the Fund pays up to 58% of what you earned per day.
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Sell the things you don't need
Sell unwanted goods and clothing to second-hand shops, on Facebook or Gumtree.
Be careful not to violate lockdown regulations though!
4. Shrink the monthly budget
- Cancel luxury services
- Adopt the cliché “every penny counts”: when it comes to the groceries, buy generic no-name brands.
- Read all the brochures advertising grocery sales and shop there.
- When we're able to buy clothes again choose end-of-season, clearance sales and second-hand clothing shops: you’ll be surprised at what you’ll pick up for a steal. Purchase drawstring skirts/trousers and loose, comfortable-fitting tops from non-pregnant sections in inexpensive stores.
- While pregnant you’ll need to take specific vitamins that are costly: shop for generic no-name brands.
5. Most effective money-savers during difficult financial times
Vicky Dyason (CFP), director of Financial Fitness Services, provides some sensible solutions:
Re-analyse your short-term insurance cover to get competitive quotations. Including household content cover with your vehicle cover will help to reduce the premium.
When last did you check your bank statement? Do you have debit orders on your account and you have no idea what they’re for? Get hold of the relevant information and re-assess if these are still necessary.
Take a look at your bank charges – are you paying more than R150 per month? If so, talk to your bank about their new packages to reduce these costs.
Stop the annual increases on your investment-only policies in order to ensure they do not escalate further. This will reduce your budget short term – later they can be changed again.
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6. What NOT do while trying to survive
Don’t let your life, disability or dread disease insurance and medical policy premiums lapse due to bad money management, as these are critical at this time of your life.
Don’t cancel your investments completely without being properly advised on the implications of penalties.
Don’t change your bond term with your bank from a 20-year to a 30-year plan, just so that your monthly premium is reduced. The effect on long-term interest charged by the bank (which you will pay monthly) will increase by more than 50% on the same loan.
Don’t incur any further debts, no matter how important you think the purchase is. This includes taking a loan to settle other debts.
Don’t purchase large items such as property or vehicles if you are already concerned about your budget.
DO NOT STRESS. It will negatively effect your baby. This period will pass.
7. Got retrenched during pregnancy? How to re-organise your finances:
Completely settle as many debts as possible (starting with your smallest) using your retrenchment package in order to reduce your monthly expenses.
Transfer your company pension/provident fund benefits (especially amounts over R50 000) tax-free to a preservation fund rather than cashing them in and paying tax on the amount.
Depending on how desperate you are, see if you can trade your current car in for a cheaper (but still reliable) model to bring your debt and payments lower.
Ensure that you obtain new medical cover immediately if you belonged to your company’s scheme.
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