As a divorced person, you should stay out of your ex-spouse's personal life.
For two people who once thought that their promises of forever meant just that, divorce can be one of the ugliest concepts to comprehend - even more so when there are children involved.
The very nature of the word denotes a rupture, a breakdown, something that went wrong.
It's a trauma that can trigger a primitive fear of abandonment, anxiety, anger and sadness for all involved, as well as a loss that each member of a family unit will grieve in their way.
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