10 things you should ask before jumping his bones

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Before you jump into bed with your new bae, how about you play a quiz and ask each other all the questions you want to know. Here are some that we think are pivotal for you to ask.  Screen Shot 2016-08-24 at 3.53.37 PM Are you a relationship type of person or nah? What are we really? Don’t assume that you are in a relationship. Ask him if this is a casual relationship or if he is hoping things will go somewhere. This could help you figure out his expectations, and give you a chance to make your own choice if they don’t match yours. What is your sex style? It’s really about what he likes in bed. Does he like it gentle or rough. Is foreplay a big part of it. And what positions does he like most? Do you have a specific sex fetish? It may take a while for a guy to reveal his fetishes and fantasies, but asking him straight-up may be very useful and can give you a great start to your sex life. Does he want to be dominant or submissive? Does he like roleplaying etc? Do you prefer shaved or bushy? This is a big issue as you won’t know until your first shag. Though the choice is yours, the general rule these days is to be clean shaven. But, there are a lot of guys who prefer it bushy down there. What lingerie do you like? If you wanted to dress sexy for him, knowing what lingerie he likes. What turns you on? A lap dance, looking at you undress, or sensual massage? What really turns him on? What are your biggest turn offs? What are the things that he could tolerate and the absolute ‘No Nos’ for him? When was the last time you got tested? It’s important to know if he is the kind of guy that cares about his health and isn’t scared of getting an STI screening. But, no matter how many times a year he goes for tests, you should use protection anyway. How many sexual partners have you had in the past? Women tend to downplay the number of past sexual partners and men always bump it up a bit. So be prepared to get an answer that is an estimate rather than absolute. But, it’ll give you an idea of his lifestyle. What would you do if I got pregnant? If you want to know if he is a commitment type, the answer to this question will certainly give you an idea. Some guys will tell you straight up that they are not ready for a baby, which can open conversation about contraceptives and playing it safe. And what would happen if you got pregnant by mistake?

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