I prefer slow sessions, but my man is a sex speedster. How do I slow him down? He may be rushing to get it over with to hide early ejaculation?or lack of sexual stamina. Introduce touching techniques that don’t include penetration, such as a sensual massage. Practise the stop-start method, where he withdraws after every few thrusts, to keep him going for longer. If you suspect your man has a medical problem, urge him to see a doctor. I have fantasies about cuffing my man, but he’s ?a control freak. Tell him how his total surrender will be a liberating experience for both of you. Handcuffs can be kinky and sexy, but it might become awkward if he’s stiff about the whole idea. Start off with a sensual massage, and begin by handcuffing one arm at a time. The idea is to drive him wild enough to shake off his inhibitions and trust you to do anything. If he’s still wary, suggest a safe word he can say to halt things. The new guy in my life is under-endowed. Which positions should we try? Here are some sex positions that are bound to make him feel, erm... mighty big. As instructed by the Kama Sutra, the cocoon style has him kneeling on the bed and resting his body on his heels as you straddle him. The snake position sees you lying on your stomach. He kneels above you, raises your hips and enters you from behind. As they say, it’s not the size of the boat, it’s the motion of the ocean. I’ve been asked to scratch my man’s balls just before he comes. I’m getting a bit irritated with him. Learn a few tricks to make it interesting: surprise him by massaging his perineum with your rabbit toy just as he is about to come. Don’t use your nails – rather massage lightly using the pads of your fingers. Draw figures of eight, and use your palms for different pressure. Licking is very good, and many guys love it when you cup them and suck gently. Don’t squeeze or tug. Why is there suddenly such a craze for anal sex? It may sound like a new craze, but along with threesomes, regular doggy style and sex in a public area, anal sex ranks high up there as what men in their sexual prime would most like to do. Men enjoy the sense of total surrender and power that comes with being trusted with the back door, and it’s an absolute treat for them.
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