A sex therapist Vanessa Marin unpacks this issue:
You’re not on the same page
Not speaking the same language with your partner can lead to fights. There’s always a miscommunication between the two of you and regardless of what you say you know both your messages get taken out of context. Therapy can help you manage your different styles of communication.
You pretend you don’t have problems
You know that sweeping dirt under the carpet never solves anything but rather makes things worse. Yet, you keep on doing it because none of you want to be the bigger persson. Therapy can help you develop strategies to help you tackle issues as they arise.
You fight about the same thing
It seems as though no matter how much you try solve this issue it always finds it’s way back into your relationship. Finding ways to deal with important decisions like when to have a baby or get married can strain a relationship and therapy helps you identify the root of the problem.
You’re about to make a life changing decision
Therapay isn’t only for tough times but it can help you anticipate what’s to come before making a life changing decison. Couples need professional guidance when it comes life events such as engagements, moving in together, marriage and babies.
You’ve had and affair or thinking about it
Regardless of the reason, having an affair is a sign that something in the relationship is broken and therapy can help you see areas that need to be mend.