BondageThis is a great way to play with power and control. When your partner has you all tied up, it’s easier for him to anything he wants to do you.
Ask for permissionNothing says ‘I’m here to serve you’ better than asking for his permission in the bedroom. Beg him to touch and kiss you passionately. The more he denies you what you want, the more hotter you’ll get.
Get punishedOnce you’ve established some rules on what’s allowed and what’s not then allow yourself to be at your partner’s mercy. Sex punishment has a way of driving power dynamics and there’s nothing as sexy as a man in charge.
Up the painSubmission can involve pain, and if pain does it for you then switch it up a notch. Ways of upping the pain include spanking, hair pulling, pinching, and biting – go wild!
Gear upUsing tools in submision is very kinky and hot. Sex experts advise that you make use of ties, hand cuffs, belts, blindfolds, the list is endless.