5 times you’re allowed to deny him sex


At times, your man is going to be in the mood when you aren’t and that’s totally fine.


When you’re tired

Nobody likes a lazy lay, it’s very unsexy. After a busy day, sometimes all you want to do is get home and sleep. You need to make your partner aware of this and make him see reason that you don’t just want to lay there while he’s doing all the work.

When you’re sick

You’re probably thinking this is so obvious, but you get men who constantly want to do it all the time. If you’re suffering from something either than a headache (you know what they say about orgasm’s and headaches), wait until you’re feeling better.

When you’re mad at him

Yes, we know angry sex is better but you get times when you don’t even want him to touch you. Wait until you’ve made up, especially if he was in the wrong before you can get down and dirty again. Using sex to get rid of your problems isn’t healthy because you’re not solving anything really.

When you’re too stressed

Sure, sex can make you forget your problems for those few minutes, but not being in the right state of mind can reduce your chances of getting wet, and not being able to reach orgasm.

When you aren’t feeling sexy

So you’ve been neglecting yourself lately and it’s all bushy down there, your legs aren’t unshaven and to top it all off, you’re in your granny panties, not cute! It’s totally understandable to want to delay doing it. This is to boost your confidence and to generally feel good about yourself.

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