6 signs to tell if you’re the problem in your relationships


Most women are quick to shift the blame to the men, but sometimes you’re the problem and maybe you don’t know. This is what could be causing the problem


You’re unhappy with yourself

Being content with yourself and life in general has a way to reflect positively on your relationship. This instills self doubt, hence you end pushing most of your partners away.

You like bringing up the past

It’s okay to take your time forgiving your partner for whatever wrong doing’s he might made, but very unfair to remind him of it every other second. If your partner has shown remorse, leave the past in the past.

You’re still stuck on your past relationships

Maybe things didn’t go as you expect with the one you though was the love of life or you just cant seem to forget about an ex. Starting a relationship with buggage is never a good idea, at some point it’s all going to come down and mess up your relationship.

You overshare on social media

Using social media is all good and well, but it becomes a problem when you splash every little detail on it. People don’t want to read about the fight you guys had. Anaylse how you’ve been using social media and see if this isn’t the reason behind many of your unsuccesful relationships.

You want everything to be perfect

As much you aren’t perfect, your partner isn’t as well. The upside about imperfect relationships is that, it creates room for change and growth. Get rid of the ‘perfect relationship’ mindset, and watch your relationship flourish on its own terms.

You don’t show any appreciation

It’s very easy to take your partner for granted after being together for quiet some time and that’s were problems start. If you give your partner reason to feel unappreciated, he will eventually give up on you and the relationship.

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