A guideline to sexting like a pro


There’s nothing that builds anticipation and excitement for sex than sexting. Here’s how to get it right the first time.

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Take it slow

You want to leave something to the imagination. Give him something to look forward to. Ask him to guess what you’re wearing or that you’re thinking about him.

Work towards a build up

At a minimum of hourly intervals, send him teasers beginning with very casual to intense texts.

Turn up the heat

Once you’ve had his attention, escalate things to a whole new level. He will be watching as the clock ticks, waiting to go home to do naughty things to you.

Trigger his memory

Remind him of the time when he really turned you on or when you had the best sex. It could be the way he rubbed your clit or how he went down on you. That should add to the excitement even more.

Leave him hanging

Now that he can’t focus on anything but his phone, ignore him for a while. His mind will be racing, wondering you’ve stopped all of a sudden.

Send descriptive feedback

Is there a particular thing that he’s doing so well it drives you crazy? Then tell him in great detail. Tell him what happens to your body when he kisses your neck, nipples, inner thighs…

Make use of visual aids

A picture is worth a thousand words and sending him a picture of that lacy underwear you plan on wearing later will sure do the trick.

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