Are you clueless when it comes to playing the seduction game? Pleasing your man before penetration can turn you on too, especially when you know where his trigger spots are.
Foot massages are a great balance of erotic and romantic zones. Start your foreplay by giving him a foot massage then focus on his sole by taking your thumb and gently rubbing around it. “Men have a relatively higher concentration of nerve endings in the soles of their feet than women do,” says Mark Michaels, co-author of the new book Partners in Passion: A Guide to Great Sex, Emotional Intimacy, and Long-Term Love.
The butt is one of the most sensitive and highly ignored areas. Finger his anus to stimulate the prostate gland; the prostate gland is similar to the female G spot, and gently massaging this area can give him a powerful orgasm. It’s best to talk to him before you try to finger his anus so he doesn’t get any unwanted surprises.
Lick around it and suck on it, increasing pressure by gently biting it. Nipples can be twisted and pulled to great effect, too. Or try sucking on an ice cube and then sucking on his nipples. The contraction of his nipples due to the cold can heighten the sensations. He might return the favour with some sexy time.
It’s amazing how even a simple whisper in the ear can drive your man crazy, so imagine if you use a little tongue. That will drive him crazy. Don’t limit your whispering and licking to inside the ear but also explore the area behind his ear. Bite the top of the ear lightly or breathe deeply behind his ear. It will definitely turn him on even more.
While his sex organ is obviously the most heightened sensitive part of his body, don’t shy away from exploring the area around his package. The inner thighs are extremely sensitive areas; maximize pleasure with a little stroking and licking.