Are you addicted to being single?


There’s a thin line between being happily single and being addicted to it. If you think you could be that woman who enjoys being alone far too much, take a look at these signs.


Despite societal pressures, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with being a single woman. But, research shows that for some, it can become an addiction, which may rob you of a chance for future romance.

You’re waiting for Mr Perfect

There’s nothing wrong with having high standards, but let’s face it, no man is going tick all the boxes in your long list of wants. No one is perfect; give the guy with the most ‘yeses’ a chance.

You have friends with benefits

Usually, it’s women who complain about the “wham bam, thank you, ma’am” attitude that some men have. But women who’re addicted to being single often do the exact same thing. You probably don’t intend to hurt the guy involved, but instead you just want to have the pleasure of sleeping in your own bed like you always do, no matter how late at night it is. For you, sleeping an entire night in a foreign bed is a definite no-no.

You’re a horizontal sleeper

You’re so used to sleeping alone in your bed, that you have the luxury of sleeping right across it.

PDA? You will do no such thing!

So everything is coming along fine and your potential suitor is doing his best to charm the hell out of you. You, in turn, start to think that maybe this guy actually has a chance. That is until he attempts to show PDA and suddenly you feel like you’re being smothered. This is when you convince yourself that you have to back off.

Your friends always come first

Yes, we all care for our friends, but you have taken it to another level. You make sure that any guy you date knows that your friends come first and he is just a second-class citizen in your world.

You don’t need anything

You’re so used to being the woman ‘doing it all for herself ’ that you just don’t understand why he wants to pick you up when going to an event together, or pay the bill when you’re out. In fact you want to show him the things that you can do for yourself to the point where he feels useless.

You are a master of friendzoning men.

If ‘Friendzoneville’ was a country, you’d be the president. You’ve perfected the skill of being so charming and attractive that they just can’t help but fall for you, but once they’re under your spell, they receive the most eloquent and polite friendzone signs from you to stay away.

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