Bad sex or no sex at all?


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It’s a waste of energy

Sex can be a good workout, but if it’s not going to have a happy ending, then you’re better off just heading to the gym and doing some cardio. There’s nothing worse than spending 15 minutes to an hour with no climax to finish you off.

It’s not easy to forget about it

If it’s really bad, it can haunt you for years to come, and who wants that type of memory? It’s hard to go back from bad sex to good sex with someone you’re not already dating, so being able to overcome this issue is going to be too much work and most people don’t want to bother with it.  You’ll have to put it into your regret jar and hope that you don’t add to it in the future.

It makes you more sexually frustrated

It makes you withdraw sexually and avoid it altogether if possible. When it comes to preserving your sexual drive, it better be something that’s worth it.  You just want it to stop so you can go to sleep or do something else. Bad sex ranges from feeling nothing to pain without pleasure. You might even think there’s something wrong with you.

Makes you sleep with someone else

You may end up sleeping with someone you don’t necessarily want to so you can rid of the terrible memory. The problem is that if you’re not one of those people who aren’t into casual sex, you may drift away from your morals just to get off, and that’s not a good thing.

It makes things awkward

After experiencing the worst sex you’re both laying there naked on opposite sides of the bed, the awkward silence could be almost too much to bear. The worst part about it is that if you already had great sex with your partner - it’s going to kill the feeling.

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