Coming out of your sexual shell


A sex routine is a no-no. Things start getting dull and boring once you stick to a routine. It’s time you got out of your sexual shell. Here’s how.

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Mirror mirror

How many of us can say we know how we look down there? Get a hand mirror and see what exactly is going on. It will help you know where those great orgasms come from, where your clitorous is and all the other parts of your vagina.

The art of sex pleasure

Lisa Thomas, a family therapist, maintains that a woman who knows how to pleasure herself is more likely to ooze confidence than those who don’t. Make a date to play with yourself, the shyness is bound to go away when you’re more comfortable with yourself and know which places to touch for maximum pleasure.

Read erotic stuff

With erotic stories you’re able to get insight from other women who do things you wouldn’t imagine doing. This will help you to initiate sex more often. You might be a bit shy to try this for the first time. So ask another sexually conservative friend to join you until you’re comfortable enough to do it alone.

Wear Sexy clothes

Surely you don’t feel a tad of sexiness in sweatpants right? Underwear is a great mood lifter, so make sure you always have something sexy underneath. Remember you’re doing this more for you. He will definitely be wowed by that sexy number but it do more for your confidence. So start shopping girl!

Initiate it

So now that we’ve worked towards building your confidence stop waiting on him to make the first move. Use those toys you bought and let him use them on you. You will shock yourself at how exciting sex can be when you get out of your comfort zone.

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